If you are looking for dating advice for men, then you have come to the right place!
I am a normal guy, certainly no “Dating Guru.” I’m on the fat side, shy, not rich, and of average looks – and none of that matters!
IMPORTANT: Getting a woman to like you does not necessarily mean she’ll be attracted to you!
Yet that is the common belief.
In the next few minutes you’ll discover what works and what doesn’t. Read every page of this site and you’ll find what I learned the hard way, and have success far faster.
When I first started dating after over 15 years, I thought if I could meet attractive women and somehow get them to like me that would work. WRONG!
If you manage to meet a hot woman (easier to do than you think), becoming her friend doesn’t mean she’ll be attracted to you.
I’ve made this mistake many times. Compliments, regardless how genuine, buying flowers, taking them out to fancy dinners, and otherwise being a great guy – a gentleman – simply does not work.
By all means, be a gentleman, a great guy, but that alone does not equate to attraction!
Also, initially meeting women was not easy for me and we’ll go into how to do that, even if you are never going to walk up to an attractive woman and introduce yourself. That is ONE technique, but not necessary at all.
There are many techniques and places to meet women!
Remember: Being good with women is a skill that can be learned!
One phenomenal resource to shorten the learning curve is:
Joshua Pellecier, the author, has helped many thousands of men get better quickly with women.
Highly recommended and I wish I had checked out his Web site and materials sooner!
I’ll give some of the biggest tips I’ve learned below
Here are 5 Critical Dating Tips
1) Being good with women can be learned!
It is a skill, and even if you have no innate talent, you can learn to become pretty good.
Whether you want one special lady to spend your life with, or want to (ethically) juggle several woman, or aren’t sure what you want, the same skills apply.
And those skills ARE learnable.
2) You need to be fun as soon as you meet them. Yes, first impressions matter a lot.
Skip or shorten the boring conversations like “where are you from” and “what do you do for work” that other men are having with them.
Men discuss facts, women discuss feelings, opinions, and thoughts.
Try questions like “If you could wake up anywhere in the world and spend a day where would it be?”
Ask them why they like certain things, even as simple as certain foods, colors, TV shows, etc. Tell them what you think – not facts, but opinions and feelings, especially in areas you are passionate about.
3) Your looks do not matter; but how you present yourself definitely does.
Hey, we’re men, and the first thing we notice about a woman is her looks. Everything else is secondary at best, certainly initially.
Women are different, what they consider attractive is not simply raw physical attractiveness AT ALL.
Confidence makes you extremely attractive to women! You build confidence with experience And yes, such things you may think are silly like how you are groomed and what you are wearing can matter a lot too.
4) Funny creates attraction, but women do not want to date clowns.
Some people may be born funny, but anyone can be funny.
5) You need to meet women in order to date then, using as many techniques as possible.
Try speed dating, online dating, encourage friends to set you up on dates, meet women in bookstores, coffee shops, grocery stores and more.
Remember, being good with women can be learned! It’s a skill, just like playing golf, fly fishing, and playing the guitar. And just a little better can be a whole lot more fun!
Two resources I heartily recommend are:
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